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Why I Won’t Allow My Daughter to Wear a Bikini

“Mommy, can I get a bikini?” my daughter asked in a hushed voice, her eyes hopeful. Her swimsuit was tattered and torn and she was definitely in need of a new one. And her question came as no surprise to me as she has recently gained an interest in bikinis…

What If My Heart Stopped Beating Tonight?

What if my heart stopped beating tonight?   This thought floated through my mind as I loaded up the dishwasher before heading to bed.   It seemed to come out of nowhere. But perhaps it was a nudge from God reminding me to take a good look at my life. A good…

6 Things I Felt Guilty About During Pregnancy After Loss and the Reason You Don’t Have To

posted on : January 7, 2018 posted by : Jenny Albers 0 Comment

Pregnancy after loss can be a generally trying time in a woman’s life. After the trauma of losing a baby and the grief that goes along with it, by the time a woman is pregnant again, there is a good chance that she is both physically and emotionally…

The Guilt in Parenting When Life is Hard

Lately, I’ve been feeling guilty about what I refer to as “the lost years” with my daughter, the two years between my 20 week pregnancy loss and the few months after my son was born. Maybe it’s that writing about pregnancy loss, grief, and pregnancy after…